Although this model seems to indicate that we must have high skill to achieve a flow state, many people achieve flow state in mundane every day activities or activities in which they are relatively lacking in skill. For example, when learning a new sport, despite having a relatively low skill level, people can still attain a flow state. What this means is just that you have sufficient skill.
For example, if you are just learning golf but you’re afraid of hitting the ball into a house or constantly shanking your balls, you might not get into a flow state. But even if you’re not a pro, you can still get into a flow state by adjusting your expectations (and thus the difficulty), for example trying to hit under 90 instead of trying to get under par.
Having clear goals seems to be crucial in attaining a flow state.
A brand new paper published in April 2022 in Nature showed that association between our goals and what we are doing to attain them is what creates flow. When we are oriented towards something, it is easy to become absorbed in what we are doing. If we are doing something that requires skill, even if it doesn’t serve some grand goal like the betterment of humanity, we can obtain a flow state. Making a goal as simple as getting better as chess or getting in shape can be just as conducive to a flow state as searching for a cure for cancer. What we have to do is to make sure what we are doing is helping us get to our goals. Sitting on a cycling machine while eating a bag of potato chips probably won’t be as rewarding as running up a mountain with a 50 pound bag (if we are capable of doing so).
What this means is that it’s good to have a bit of discomfort sometimes. Discomfort can happen when trying to get to a skill level necessary to reach a flow state, or challenging yourself to reach your goals. Running your first 10 miles in training for a marathon might be uncomfortable, but it can still lead to flow and fulfillment. Flow doesn’t necessarily mean comfortable.
We have to initiate action before experiencing flow. Flow means pushing your skills in the perfect amount, often in ways that we know will be uncomfortable, which makes starting the action hard sometimes. But this zone of pushing your skills is where you grow. Similar to the "Zone of Proximal Development," where learning is most efficiently done in the area between what you can do unassisted and what you cannot do, we must push ourselves past our limits in order to grow.
But maybe you don’t like struggle and want to pursue a hedonistic lifestyle? Unfortunately, the research doesn’t look too good on that one.
Research has shown that materialistic values and lifestyles lead to less fulfillment and makes you less likely to experience flow. This is because chasing comfort and pleasure makes you less likely to challenge yourself in a way that gives you flow. By avoiding challenges, you will not only be unprepared for the inevitable challenge of life, but you will not grow to your full potential.
In my experience, chasing comfort instead makes your mind uncomfortable. If I am not moving forward towards my goals, I cannot feel proud of who I am. We grow the most when we are a bit uncomfortable, and we can sleep well knowing that we took steps toward our goals.